How do you see yourself? Are you harsher on yourself than others are? Most people are. I know I am.
The way I see myself isn't always in line with the way God sees me, though. In fact, it's often influenced by the way the world sees things.
These perspectives are vastly different.
The world's perception is contradictory and ever changing. Yet one thing remains. There is always something missing that it can't identify.
The world says: You're perfect as you are. Love yourself. But also, change yourself to be better. Liposuction! Plastic surgery! Breast implants! Acne medication! Mood medication! You can be a better you. You're not good enough. Once we fix you, you can love yourself. Or maybe not. Maybe you'll also need more surgery. And more expensive clothes. And tons of makeup.
God's perception of us is quite different. He sees us through eyes of perfect love. He sees what is inside of us, even the bad parts, and He still finds us wonderful enough to redeem with His only Son's life.
God says: Only I am perfect, but I created you in My image. Love yourself and love others because I love you more than anyone could ever explain. Only I have never sinned, but strive everyday to be holy, as I am holy, because I have set you apart from the world for myself. You will fail sometimes, but I will still love you, just as you are, flaws, imperfections, and insecurities included, and I will forgive you when you fail, as no one else can, if you will only confess and accept My forgiveness.
Sometimes we focus far too much on the world's perception of who we are and don't pay enough attention to who God says we are. So, next time that voice starts up in your mind about how you aren't good enough, about how you could change to be better, remember what God says. Remember who He says you are, and what He cares about. And only consider change if it brings you closer to Him, and further into His plan for your life.